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Strictly confidential
No obligation
One-on-one
The Process
How It Works
Private Consultation
We start with a confidential call to understand who you are, what you’ve built, and what you’re truly looking for.
Your Profile & Criteria
Together we define your values, lifestyle, and the qualities that matter most in a partner.
The Search
I personally search and screen candidates from our private database, including graduates of our women’s program, whom I know on a deep personal level.
Curated Introductions
You meet a carefully selected woman. No apps, no volume dating. Only intentional introductions.
Feedback & Refinement
After each introduction we refine the search together, until you find the relationship you came for.
The Difference
Who You’ll Meet
Every woman in our database is personally interviewed and screened for values, emotional maturity, and genuine relationship intent.
Many are graduates of our private development program for women, which means I don’t just know their photos and profiles. I know their character, their communication style, and what they’re truly looking for.
That’s a level of insight no dating app can offer.
The Experience
What’s Included
A Dedicated Matchmaker
One point of contact. Complete discretion, from first call to last introduction.
Private Database Access
A pre-screened network of women, never public, never on an app.
Curated Introductions
Quality over quantity. Every introduction is made with intention.
Date Planning
Logistics handled, so you can focus on the person in front of you.
Post-Date Feedback
Honest, structured feedback after every introduction.
Ongoing Guidance
Support and perspective throughout the entire process.
Your Matchmaker
Amparo
After years of watching brilliant, accomplished people leave their love lives to chance, I decided to bring the same intention to matchmaking that they bring to everything else they build. I founded Join To Find Love because the person you choose to spend your life with deserves far more than an algorithm and a swipe.
I work with only a small number of clients at a time, because real matchmaking is deeply personal. I take the time to understand who you are, what you value, and the kind of partnership you’re genuinely looking for, and then I introduce you to women I know on a real, human level, not just a profile on a screen.
Who you marry shapes every part of your future: your happiness, your family, your legacy. My work is making sure that decision is made with intention, not left to chance.
Discretion · Results
What our clients say
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I was sceptical about matchmaking, if I am honest. A colleague insisted I call. Six months later I am engaged to a woman I would never have crossed paths with otherwise.
James W., London
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Complete discretion from the first call. No profile floating around the internet, no games, no wasted evenings. Every introduction had a reason behind it.
Michael R., New York
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Amparo understood what I was looking for better than I did. Her second introduction is the woman I now share my life with. I still find that remarkable.
Oliver H., Manchester
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I run a company and travel constantly, so I have no patience for apps. This was the first process that respected my time, my privacy and my intentions.
Daniel K., Chicago
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What sets this apart is judgement. Amparo knows the women she introduces on a personal level, so the matches are considered rather than random. That difference is everything.
Thomas B., Edinburgh
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Felt less like a service and more like being set up by a friend with impeccable taste 😀 Two introductions in, I stopped looking. Still glad I made that first call 🙏
Andrew S., Boston
Before you apply
Questions You May Have
How much does matchmaking cost?
Do you accept every man who applies?
How do you select the women you introduce?
What if I don’t find a partner?
How long does the process take?
Is the process confidential?
Not ready for matchmaking?
Private Coaching
One-on-one guidance to become the man your dream girl is looking for.
Coming soon
Dating Masterclass
The fundamentals of modern dating, done with intention and standards.
Coming soon
Ready?
Apply for private matchmaking. Every application is reviewed personally and treated with complete confidentiality. Prefer to talk first? You can also book a private call.
Limited availability for private matchmaking